Martin E,
It’s not that I regard 30 as being on the shelf…It’s just that turning “3″ in front is scary…and knowing you met ur wife when you guys were over 40 - thank you. That soothes somewhat. LOL.

melbie,
But u gotta admit its kinda scary rite? Yeah,I believe that if its meant to be its meant to be…just overthinking things sometimes…LOL…Thanks for ur ramblings…

drumsticks,
What do you want in life? Happiness.
What do you want to be? Happy.
Would you take master if its not fully sponsored? No.
Are you taking it just because its free? I guess.
Do you want to continue working and make ends meet, or continue to build your career? I can continue to build my career while making ends meet…
Do you want to be a lecturer? I don’t think so.

If it’s meant to be,its meant to be…
Thanks dear…ur Qs above might have just helped me find my answer…

teruterubozu,
I am not satisfied at one single level of achievement. I believe everyone wants to go as high as they can…but I believe that that level is not just academic level…A person might have a PhD but be miserable…it all comes down to the person himself I guess…
Yes, life is life long learning…but classroom learning…not what Im thinking of right now…
And guys…I’m not really worried…I believe in God’s plan for my life…He’s done pretty well so far…

Thanks my dear friend…really touched by your concern…Three things I’ll say to you: A TRUE FRIEND…
…and I will always REMEMBER…

suituapui,
Yes, I agree with you…a child should grow up with dreams of their own and be supported by loved ones…sadly,that’s very rare…

P.S. Btw, u can join the Open University to do ur Masters on weekends (twice a month, I think)…all in Kuching. Others may offer off-campus…but u may have to fly over to go to the uni quite often. I’m not 100% sure…but u can check this out yourself!

Three Things……….

Three things in life that, once gone, never come back:
Time, Words, Opportunity

Three things in life that may never be lost:
Peace, Hope, Honesty

Three things in life that are most valuable:
Love, Self - Confidence, Friends

Three things in life that are never certain:
Dreams, Success, Fortune

Three things that make a man/woman:
Hardwork, Sincerity, Commitment

Three things in life that can destroy a man/woman:
Alcohol, Pride, Anger

Three things in life that, once lost, hard to build-up:
Respect, Trust, Friends

Three things in life that never fail:
True Love, Determination, Belief

REMEMBER…
The shortest distance between a problem and a solution
is the distance between your knees and the floor.
The one who kneels to the Lord,
can stand up to anything..

hmmm..u know what.. we are making decision in every steps we taken in every beat of our heart and in every second of our life..and there is always at least 2 different choices.. i am glad to hear that u r thinking bout ur master degree now.. what ever it is, u are the one who make up the decision.. it is on your hand..even when your are working u need to see where is your future then.. the same thing happen after you graduate your master degree and become a lecturer..i am pretty sure that you are not dat type of girl whom satisfy at one single level of achievement.. later you will see dat we always want more more and more in our life… making a wise decision is not an easy thing to do…i already get into it …u r lucky as u r given the opportunity 2 decide but i dont..

ask your self.. what do you want… why you choose A and left B?..do you really want to end up with ur current job? u know..we are study most of our life.. long life learning, remember…people never put a limit when we shouldnt be a student..

most of the time we are not given both dat we wish 2 have. unless we r the lucky one or the choosen one i think… i think u already planned ur future..then go for it… bout the guys..i’m sure God had reserve some1 for u…hehehehe… whether u meet him now or later, we dont know…dont think 2 much bout ‘jodoh’.. ‘kalau ada takkan ke mana…’see.. Martin getting married in 50 bah.. his wife is 40’s… why so worried..even me still single and available bah.. i’m not worried bout it, what im worrying bout is what am i going to do when i retire..

Make a wise decision girl…Nobody can give you wiser advise than yourself..(Cicero) Think for the long run..

emm.. i think im too much…what ever ur decision, u’ll owest have my support fren..
da..

someone once told me that you can control what you want to do in life, who you want to be, but there’s one thing you cant control is.. finding the guy. It will somehow come into your life if its meant to be yours, then its yours.

Just pray about it, you will have the answer.. the answer is in your heart..

p/s : i know crossroads are tough! So, you’ll have my support friend..